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Who Speaks for the Child Who Cannot Speak?

As a social worker, I have come to realize that some of the most important voices in our society are often the ones that are never heard. The babies abandoned at birth, the toddlers removed from unsafe environments, the children battling illness in hospital wards, and the little ones who have experienced trauma before they have even learned to express their feelings in words, all have stories that deserve to be heard. Yet many of them cannot advocate for themselves. This is where our responsibility begins.

Throughout my short journey in social work, I have had the privilege of working with vulnerable children in both hospital and residential care settings. I have sat beside parents receiving devastating diagnoses for their children, supported families navigating impossible decisions, and cared for children whose early experiences have been marked by loss, neglect, abandonment, and trauma. These experiences have reinforced a truth that I carry with me every day: children do not choose the circumstances into which they are born, but they deserve every opportunity to experience safety, love, dignity, and hope.

Working with babies and young children who cannot yet speak has taught me that silence does not mean the absence of a voice. A child’s behaviour, developmental progress, emotional responses, and physical well-being often communicate far more than words ever could. As social workers, we are called to listen carefully to these unspoken messages and to advocate fiercely on behalf of those who cannot yet advocate for themselves.

Advocacy is not always dramatic or visible. Sometimes, it means ensuring that a child’s legal rights are protected. Sometimes, it means supporting a caregiver who is overwhelmed and in need of resources. Sometimes, it means sitting in a multidisciplinary meeting and asking difficult questions to ensure that the child’s best interests remain at the centre of every decision. At other times, it means comforting a frightened child, documenting concerns thoroughly, or refusing to accept that a child’s circumstances cannot be changed.

My work with vulnerable children has also shown me the incredible resilience that children possess. Despite experiencing trauma, loss, illness, or abandonment, many children continue to demonstrate remarkable strength and an extraordinary capacity for attachment, healing, and hope. This resilience inspires me daily and reminds me why advocacy matters.

As social workers, we have an ethical and moral responsibility to protect children, challenge systems that fail them, and create environments where they can thrive. Advocacy extends beyond individual cases. It requires us to raise awareness, educate communities, influence policy, and encourage society to recognize that every child deserves protection and care.

There are moments in this profession that are heartbreaking. There are days when the weight of children’s suffering feels overwhelming. Yet there are also moments of profound joy, seeing a child smile after experiencing safety for the first time, witnessing a family reunification succeed, or watching a vulnerable child begin to trust again. These moments remind me that our advocacy as social workers has purpose.

I believe that social work is more than a profession, it is a calling to stand in the gap for those who cannot stand for themselves. When we advocate for children without a voice, we affirm their inherent dignity, worth, and humanity. We communicate a powerful message: you matter, you are seen, and your story deserves to be heard.

The children we serve may not always remember our names, all the doctor visits we drove them to, the times where you lie beside them on the ground and play, our reports, or our interventions. But they will remember how they felt when someone finally listened, protected them, and fought for their well-being.

Until every child has the ability and opportunity to speak for themselves, we must continue to raise our voices on their behalf.

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Anje Van Dyk

Anje van Dyk is a qualified social worker and administrator at Daybreak House for Vulnerable Babies, a registered Place of Safety operating under the Grové Schoombee Foundation NPC. She carries a deep sensitivity toward the pain of children who have never known safety or love, and she has made it her life's work to stand in the gap for them. Her writing comes from the inside of this work, honest, compassionate, and grounded in the belief that every vulnerable life is worthy of protection and dignity.

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